The Ultimatum: Queer Love
The Ultimatum: Queer Love

The Ultimatum: Queer Love

2023 2 Seasons 20 Episodes ⭐ 4.8 Reality

Five new couples, made up of women and non-binary people, are at a crossroads in their relationship. One partner is ready for marriage, the other may have doubts. An ultimatum is issued. And in just over eight weeks, each couple will either get married, or get out, after they each choose new potential partners in a life-changing opportunity to get a glimpse of two different futures.

Five new couples, made up of women and non-binary people, are at a crossroads in their relationship. One partner is ready for marriage, the other may have doubts. An ultimatum is issued. And in just over eight weeks, each couple will either get married, or get out, after they each choose new potential partners in a life-changing opportunity to get a glimpse of two different futures.

Seasons & Episodes

EP 1

The Break Up

After a last night together, the couples begin to co-mingle, looking around for marriage material — outside of their o

EP 2

The Choice

Excitement and anxiety brew as everyone forges fresh connections and selects new partners. One commitment-wary person's

EP 3

Newlyweds

After talking through issues from bathroom storage to bedtime massages, five new couples emerge. Now it's time to stress

EP 4

Group Nights Out

Two couples find closeness and comfort, while others struggle with tension and fights. Romance heats up at home for one

EP 5

In and Out of Love

After the cocktail hour, some bonds are strengthened — and others crumble. The couples meet with friends and family an

EP 6

The Changeover

Revelations are shared during the changeover. Will a one-night stand break one couple — and will someone new come betw

EP 7

Cocktails and Confrontation

From discussing gender roles to rekindling sparks, the couples try to reconnect. One person's lingering emotions casts d

EP 8

Is Love Enough

As one person hits a breaking point and another struggles to process her feelings, a question looms: is love alone enoug

EP 9

Ultimatum Day

With Ultimatum Day upon them, the couples make their life-changing decisions — who will walk away newly engaged, and w

EP 10

The Reunion

Shocking updates, hard truths and powerful realizations come to light when the group reunites for the first time since t

EP 1

Either You Want to Marry Me or You Don't

After one last night together, the couples go their separate ways to date the other newly single participants as chemist

EP 2

Love Triangles

From having kids to coming out, date conversations get real. A juicy love triangle forms, and one person's flirtatiousne

EP 3

The Choice

Six new couples emerge from a twist-filled choice ceremony, ready to embark on three-week trial marriages. But not every

EP 4

Secret Rendezvous

Newfound feelings simmer as the couples settle into their shared lives. As some pairs get intimate, others confront betr

EP 5

Behind Closed Doors

For one couple, tension leads to a heartfelt moment of growth. Two pairs come together over their trauma, and a blowout

EP 6

The Changeover

Over matching tattoos and first meetings with loved ones, the couples continue to get closer. A romantic rumor sparks a

EP 7

My Heart Is Shattered

Drama explodes when grievances--and receipts--are shared during the changeover. Can longtime love outlast the fallout fr

EP 8

Backtrack of the Century

Through tears and harsh truths, the original couples reunite. Later, a group cocktail party stirs up shocking revelation

EP 9

Ultimatum Day

EP 10

The Reunion

One year after the ultimatum, the participants reunite for an emotionally charged evening of heated exchanges and healin

Popular Cast

JoAnna Garcia Swisher
JoAnna Garcia Swisher
Self - Host